I got my wheelchair this past July, so I'm really new at this rolling lifestyle. Can I be honest with you? I was so glad to get my ride! I knew it was time to ditch the walker and I knew having my chair would lead to more freedom for me, so why wouldn't I be glad? After all, who doesn't cherish their personal freedom? The ability to move about the planet; to come and go as you please is a basic right and freedom we all take for granted. I certainly did. And when that right is impaired and something
like neuromuscular disease begins to cramp your style...well who wouldn't want to gain some, if not all, of it back?
But I'm pretty observant and I've noticed that not everyone shares my enthusiasm for my chair. In fact, I've been thinking lately that I need to address this with you because I see it's so prevalent out there. As a brand new wheel chair user, I do not view myself as "wheelchair bound." I'm not someone who needs pity or sympathy because I roll instead of walk. Rather, I see me as a woman who has a movement disorder who needs this marvelous piece of equipment to enhance her life! My wheel chair completes me. It picks up the slack where weakened muscles have given up. It's a gift! A God-send! And a part of me! It gives me a better quality of life. Where's the pity in that?
So don't, pity me that is. If we happen to cross paths, smile at me if you see me because if I'm out with my chair, getting to live my life, chances are good I'm happy about that. Not that everyday is good, because it isn't, but at least I get to be out there giving it my best shot--all thanks to my chair!
We're rolling along together, making the most of the day. I'm not thinking about being "confined to a wheelchair!" I am thinking how glad I am to be able to participate in life away from home because I have this wonderful piece of equipment that has already become an integral part of my life. People attach emotions to objects all the time, well, I've become really fond of my new ride. It's pretty cool looking if you haven't seen it and it has the potential to be even better as I upgrade and customize it. It's super lightweight and can easily go in and out of my van. It has a special adjustable back support and comfy gel seat. It THE most comfortable chair I've ever sat in! ....and with it, I plan to go wherever my heart desires and my muscles allow! xx
